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A harness is something you strap onto your pelvis to hold a dildo just over your pubic bone, which you can then use to penetrate your partner either vaginally or anally almost as if you had a flesh-and-blood penis. This is a powerful fantasy for some men and women, though certainly not all. However, like anything else in life that’s safe, if you’re not sure whether you’d like it or not then you’re probably better off trying it at least once, so you and your partner can have more time in your lives to enjoy it if you find that it’s something you both enjoy.

Right now, the preferred harness/dildo combination definitely seems to be the extremely well constructed BEND OVER BEGINNER KIT. This affords both vaginal and anal dildos to satisfy both male and female desires. Many other examples of dildos and harnesses can be found in our STRAPON section.

 Tips: When using a harness, imagine that the dildo is actually part of your body (for most people this makes it easier to control). Also, if you have problems with your dildo slipping out of your partner, select a dildo with a slightly bulbous “head” so that the increased resistance will alert you when it’s about to pop out.